Dear Dr. Dogan
Issue#1, May, 1998
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Letter:
4/21/98 10:03 PM t____y Dear Dr. Dogan,
Last november 27 1997, i broke up with my boyfriend. i
was hurt really bad. that i promise to myself that i
would never fall in love again or if so the next guy
wont be that lucky as my ex. well not exactly well a
month after someone courted me he'ss really nice but the
thought of getting hurt again still stays in my mind so
i turned him down. as if i didn't care at all. at the
same time another guy courted me from my school i told
him the truth
4/21/98 10:07 PM t____y about not having a bf. so there i didn't want to hurt
him or anything coz his a close friend of mine. then
another one from school there before he could even start
i told him that i don't want to have a boy friend yet.
then a month later this guy courted me i thought that
maybe i should try this out maybe it would work out then
i let him court but then after 6 days i told myself that
i cant i don't wanna fall yet. so then i turned him
down.
4/21/98 10:10 PM t____y i dunno why then a close friend of mine confessed to me
what he feels about me . i don't know what to do i mean
i treat like a brother nothing else than that. i told
him that i want him for a brother not a boy friend. i
don't know what happen he seldom call but i guess we are
still friends as in close. but the guy who courted me
before him wont stop. as in he often visits me and
calls. well he's really nice but i don't know what to
do. i want to
4/21/98 10:13 PM t____y get a boy friend but i can't seem to find the right one.
i wanna get one who's a lot better than my ex. because
when he see's me dating other guys he always has
something to say about them. i don't know. i want to
prove him that he is not the only guy in this world that
i would find. i want to show him that i didn't lose
anything that he has the lost not me. i don't know he is
so arrogant. that's why sometimes i think that i
beginning to become a
4/21/98 10:16 PM t____y man hater. well my exs knows that i have a phobia in
having a boy friend thats why he laughs at me. because
knows that i get so jelous or mad when he's with his gf
making me feel like i'm a lose. i don't wanna wake up
one morning and finding out that i became a man hater.
scared to have a boy friend. i don't know what to do.
it's jusst not fair. what should i do??????? please
help!?!?!?!?!
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